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1.   May 13, 2007 5:05 AM

» redback - unconditional love?

In response to unconditional love? posted by LauriePK:


Tis my cynical duty to inform you all things come with 'terms and conditions' be it in plain English or words that need a highly skilled barrister to work through. Even then, there needs to be an extra condition of trust by one or both.

I shudder at the Wikepedia definition. I think UPR tis a clumsy term and probably inconsistently understood/applied.

Here is an interesting examination involving "unwilling" clients:
http://members.optusnet.com.au/dwillsh/u...

I was told by a senior social worker that he interviewed a woman who told him in the strictest of confidence, she was defrauding the very agency he was employed at where he was duty bound to report it. Are there unconditional terms of engagement before professional 'love' sets in?

I'd really have to see a skilled UPR practioner in action before commenting. Certainly, I can't see getting unconditional love from a person who gets a fee from me. happy

'Unconditional' by definition means it can't be checked for compliance. So, do you have faith you can do it? This thing that says "I love you unconditionally but I hate what you are doing" is what...limited to agape love??????????

-- posted by redback


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