Psychology

» redback - worth the effort?

I think making the effort with people with mental health problems is worth the effort. I think making the effort to help prevent the onset of problems in the first place, is worth the effort. But "we" need an attitudinal shift to make it happen.

IF only...I knew then what I know now. My late wife was taking anti-depressants rather than anti-psychotics. Her access to 8 shock treatments (ECT) without her husband being told..needing to know. Over the years 3 treating psychiatrists with one suiciding, one dying of cancer and one pre-occupied with his time in the Navy Reserve created "challenges" for trust and compliance.

All part of the learning experience her God didn't want to deprive me of. But Pink, this is now over a decade ago. Most of my efforts since then were in more objective fields of endeavour.

I don't know if Laurie has covered the concept of Transactional Analysis made famous by the book: 'I'm OK, You're OK'. But this was being introduced into counselling in the 70s. We transferred the 'group therapy group' to our home for a more natural, informal environment. A more relaxed, Saturday night out with this group and informed, caring friends. I was told I had destroyed the group "dynamic". Aaaahhh!!!

The heady days of socialising to a diminishing group of friends. My oldest friend (still) fondly recalls the time I was king-hit with a beaded handbag that richocheted off my head to dint his NEW car.

Sorry, Laurie...maybe this belongs in the article on humour triggers coz there were really fond memories that bring a smile to my face if not a downright ABC.

-- posted by redback